
Image from Fox 8 North Carolina
by Brian Shilhavy
Health Impact News
We are very pleased to see local media investigate the corrupt practices of child service agencies kidnapping children. While we disagree with the News Anchor at N.C. Fox 8 who started this report by stating that removal of children by the State is “almost always” in the best interest of the child (we have been covering this issue probably longer and have looked into probably more cases than they have, and we have found that it is almost NEVER in the best interest of the child to remove them from the home), we do applaud their investigation into why children removed from supposed “abusive homes” are almost never placed with family members, but instead go into the foster care system to strangers.
Fox 8 points out in their investigation that North Carolina rejects funding that would put children permanently with relatives instead of in foster homes. Grandparents who are able and willing to care for their grandchildren, for example, are routinely rejected by the State.
Why?
Melissa Painter of Fox 8 points out that in North Carolina more than 10,000 children are in foster care under the care of the State. This brings in more than $198 million of funding to take care of these children.
Federal laws actually require states to give preference to placing children with relatives. There is even federal funding available to place the children with relatives in “permanent legal guardianships.” But North Carolina (and many other states) do not follow this practice, because children put up for adoption bring in more federal funding. Instead of giving federal funds that can be designated for relatives in guardianships, they keep the funds for themselves to administer the foster care and adoption system.
In short, a child put into the foster care system on the path to adoption, brings in more money to the State and employs more people to “administer” these children. They are simply unwilling to give these funds to relatives to take care of the children, because their job security is at stake.
Child welfare experts say subsidized guardianships save taxpayers money in the long run, because they cut the enormous ADMINISTRATIVE costs of managing an open foster care case. (emphasis added.)
Watch the Fox 8 report for yourself:



Diane, I have two boxes of ‘legal’ papers detailing my gauntlet through the system. I have spent two years salary on obeying and complying. I have a still, small voice and five young children. Thank you for listening. All I can say is that I am the type of person that would get on the ark with Noah if he were alive today. I have seen evil and wickedness that I never imagined. When my daughter came forward and said that her father raped her, the school counselor covered for the abuser & his complacent wife! What a horror. I have been arrested three times on spurious charges, and I have been bullied and abused. I have a BA in journalism. I went to nursing school. I am currently getting my Master’s degree. Mostly, I wake up and thank my Heavenly Father that my heart still beats. No one should go through what I have. My children are so brainwashed and traumatized that if you were to ask them if anything is amiss at home, they would deny it. I was there once too. I was so abused that I thought a day of not fearing for my life was a good day. It has been almost two years since I have seen my children. My youngest was only one when I saw him last. I wanted them to call me on Mother’s Day, but I mercifully accept that they cannot. I am afraid for their lives with their father. He is cruel and financially set. Since my case was a divorce, it is different than most kidnappings here; however, in my research I have learned that in abuse situations, the abusers gets primary custody of the children 70% of the time. How can this be? I have two feet in. I am fully invested, and I am fairly certain if my abuser does not go to prison, then my witness against him will be the end of me. I wish I could tear down the walls that keep my children trapped. One day my & all children will be free. Until then, thanks for the support and friendship. God speed the right.Losing children to ‘legal’ kidnapping is very painful. You have this constant, pressing need to nurture and protect them & teach them and love them, yet you cannot. It is a cruel and unusual punishment, inflicted where no crime has been committed. You can spend every penny you have on lawyers and years on anxiety & limp away with empty arms. There is no love in CPS. The rules and laws are flexed to support the abusers, and good people risk becoming jaded through attrition and sheer exhaustion. Ask me how I know.